Social Motivation in Autism: New Podcast Challenges Myths About Connection

 

A new episode of The William Gomes Podcast challenges persistent misconceptions about social motivation in autism, offering a more nuanced and compassionate understanding of how autistic people seek and experience connection.

In Episode 16, “Social Motivation in Autism – Wanting Connection in a Different Way,” William Gomes explores why autistic individuals may sometimes appear socially withdrawn, despite having a strong desire for meaningful relationships. The episode explains how sensory overload, cognitive effort and previous social experiences influence when, how and with whom autistic people choose to connect.

Rather than framing reduced social participation as lack of interest, the discussion highlights the role of social fatigue and environmental demands. Gomes explains that many autistic people value deep, genuine relationships but may avoid situations that feel overwhelming, unpredictable or draining.

The episode also addresses how stereotypes about autism and social motivation can lead to misunderstanding and exclusion. By recognising that social interest can be expressed in quieter or less conventional ways, families, educators and professionals can create environments that support connection without pressure to conform.

Part of a wider autism series on The William Gomes Podcast, the episode contributes to ongoing conversations about neurodiversity, inclusion and mental wellbeing, emphasising understanding over assumption.

Episode 16: Social Motivation in Autism – Wanting Connection in a Different Way is available now:
https://youtu.be/lZbh9cHBK-c?si=ksj-lhZEcfWUPC6G